Category: Singles Spit Swap
Some call it second life. some call themselves adult babies and wear diapers. some like to mother of father these big kids. Just curious. Is anybody in here into that?
I've read about it (among other things), and in general it sounds interesting. I kind of wonder why people would want to play such roles, but I guess it could be that some people like the idea of taking care of their partner or of being taken care of themselves.
As for me, whether or not I'd actually try it though, I don't know. The idea of being taken care of actually sounds nice, but I would not want to be calling my guy any dad-related terms because that part would just not feel right to me personally.
Nope, not me. I talked to a guy on here once who told me he liked to wear diapers, and that turned me off. Yuck!
PrincessLeilani, yeah, I can see where calling your man Dad would be a bit creepy. some people don't get with their age-play mommies and daddies. It's a strictly platonic role.
LibraLady, you have me curious. who is this diapered man so I can ask his opinion on the subject. Thanks for your opinion.
Lucy
Lucy, I don't actually remember his username, but I'll sendn you what I do remember in a private message.
I got your message, Becky. Thanks. *hugs*
Lucy
I find the whole mommy and dad role kind of creepy as well. It would be nice for someone to take care of me but not like that.
Hi again, Glover! Welcome to this board. I think your response to this topic is fairly typical. Let me ask you and others this. In another sinario, would you be open to roleplay? doctor/nurse? Doctor/patient? Magician and his assistant? ... The list goes on and on.
Lucy
I'd say that generally most open minded people are comfortable with role playing. It's the type of roles which may get uncomfortable.
For me, the disturbing fantasy is incest, mother/son, and at times, daughter/father.After that, pretty much anything goes.
Darn OK Sure, and I was thinking we could get together with me pretending to be your father and you pretending to be my mother and the cat could be our grandpa...oh well, never mind.
roleplay is amazing. age play is as well but I have to be the caregiver lol otherwise It doesn't work for me. I've done many roles in the past. school teacher/student, doctor/pacient, master/slave ETC.
MJ
Hi Okay Sure1 welcome to the board. Yeah I see where incest is strange in that regard. Although I don't mind cousins in certain circumstances. For example if one is adopted and the two don't know their cousins until they've fallen madly in love with each other.
I'd like to throw that out there, folks. Is incest ever okay/ If so, when?
lol becky. You're a nut. everybody knows that in that sort of situation the cat always plays the illigitamate niece of the son's yoga instructor's incestuous roommate.
MJ, that's interesting. have you ever engaged in that sort of relationship before? If so, I'd be curious about your experiences.
Lucy
I would do role playing if it was another situation of course. I am a very open minded person. Anything with family it stops there. My family is crazy engough. and when a person is adopted in to your family its still not ok.
Awesome, glover. *smiles* what about if two people don't even know they're cousins until after they've gotten together?
oooo... can i be the magician?
*runs off to practice some tricks*
incest is wrong, no matter what.
This is a little off topic because it involves fiction, but incest is what turned me off the V.C. Andrews books. I started out liking them until the theme of incest and child abuse or neglect turned up in every single one of her books. Yuck!
Of course you can, timekeeper. lol be sure to wear lots of sequens and carry a talking rabbit.
hi Blondey1 Well awesome. Thanks for your opinion. I think it's okay if there are kids involved, but if the two are gonna stay together, I think they need to be steralized so they don't make any more children. It's too risky that another child might have complications.
becky, that's great. I love off-topic. it's those tho go off topic that add new depth to a board. Okay, so what were the books about/ was it a series?
She wrote several different series. The first one I read started out with a book called Flowers in the Attic about a mother who couldn't take care of her kids financially after her husband died. So she left her kids with her mother who was quite weird and wicked and would not let them out of the attic. The two older kids, a brother and sister, fell in love with each other. One of the younger kids died. At the end of this book the ones still living managed to escape. I can't remember a lot of details of the othe books except that incest and child abuse were themes all the way through. We finally find out that even the mother and father of these kids who were in the attic had been related to each other. And the wicked grandmother had also had an incestuous relationship in her younger days. I believe the author is dead now, but you could probably still find her books if you use NLS. Like I said, she wrote a variety of series, but in each one, incest was a strong theme as well as child abuse.
Hmmm, maybe she was abused as a child herself, or knew people who were incestuous. Maybe she just liked to be a little weird or crazy. I would never engage in that myself, because it just wouldn't be a good thing to do, not with all the genetic stuff that can go wrong with it. Besides, it's more trouble than it's worth because society looks down on it, and with good reason. Obviously if you don't want to read books with those kinds of themes that's your choice, but I personally would first wonder why they were recurrent in this author's books.
As for the question of whether it's wrong for distant cousins to fall in love, no, I don't think so at all, especially if they didn't even know they were related. They can't be held at fault for that. But again, maybe it wouldn't be such a great idea for them to have kids together, although if they were related by marriage and not blood I don't see anything wrong with that either.
Now back to the age play topic. What are some of your thoughts regarding the actual age of the partners involved? Sure, role playing is all about adopting a position in life that the person usually isn't in, but I personally would have a hang up about calling a guy I was dating daddy or anything like that if he was younger. It just doesn't seem logical. But maybe the role playing experience isn't supposed to be logical. In any case, I fully agree with what others have said that it would be weird to call my boyfriend daddy in the first place.
Hi Screaming Turtle. I agree that this recurring theme in V.C. Andrews books very likely could mean she experienced these things in her own life. I can see an author writing one book with such themes without it meaning anything other than the author wanted to write about it. But for it to be the theme in all her books has to mean serious issues.
Lucy
sucks for them they cant have any kids at all. They would reall have to love each other to stay together for all the crazy shit they will have to go through. Socity is so set on having a clear picture as to what is right and wrong and what is normal or not normal.
you got it lucy.
your wish is my command. :)
speaking of insest, have you guys seen that thing on the news about thatMackenzie Phillips girl writing a book about her consential insestious relationship with her father? it went on for years. disturbing as all hell.
Yep, and she said she enjoyed it most of the time. Again yuck!
There is alot of crazy things in the news.
Wow Becky! *shudders* I read a book in college called The Painted bird. Afterwords, I swore there could not be a book anywhere more disterbing than that. I don't think I'll check it out, but thank you for telling me anyways. lol
Hey! Your post gives me an idea for something I can post in the book nook. Disterbing literature throughout the ages. What do you think?
Hi screaming Turtle! Yep, I definitely agree with you. If one creates book after book of incest and the like, there had to be some abuse going on. Af far as the age play thing goes, I'm not really sure. From what I've heard, it doesn't really matter how old the participants are just as long as they're over eighteen. Most people like the partners who play parents to be older, though. Yeah, there is something strange to me too about being in love with someone you call dad. hmmmm. Issues. such a thing would have to be platonic. Have you ever heard of geschtalt Therapy? I don't know if I'm spelling that right. Anyway, there are several forms of it but the basic idea is that the person recieve therapy by connecting with his/her inner child.
Lucy
Ture that, glover. They definitely wouldn't have it easy. There is always adoption, but soem agencies might frown on the parents familial connection.
Awesome, Time Keeper, I do so love talking rabbits.
emerald Hourglass, that's an awesome screenname by the way. No I hadn't heard of MacKenzie Phillips. Why on earth would she write a book on the matter? That's what I'd like to know. what would that accomplish?
Lucy
Lucy
Maybe she just wants to tell her story as to what the hell she was thinking.
I don’t agree, but I would understand this whole caretaker kind of thing. I mean, It’s not abusive. The whole thing is these people might not have had a good childhood, and therefore is stuck in that mode or wish to make it all better by being the mother.
No, incest is never good under any circumstances.
Yes, I’ve read three of V. C. Andrew’s books. One because I was curious, but my friend forced me to read two. I was horrified. I didn’t like romance and is not particularly found of romantic stories because of it. I read Darkest Hour, Dawn, and Flowers In The Attic. The whole chamber basket where the kids could pee in the room really grossed me out. In darkest hour the whole blood incident with the period was disturbing., and dawn, the whole thing with Philip, jimmy, and Dawn was horrifying. I mean all the incest was disgusting and disturbing as well. I was twelve when I read these books, after all.